Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 01.07.2025 13:45

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

What I have noticed is nearly every girl I try to connect with whom reject me are in their early 20s why is that the case?

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

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No country for ugly people…

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

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